Once upon a time I took a course titled Philosophy Of Religion. Looking back, I think a philosophy of love may have served me better. Whereas religion has caused me much chaos and pain, love has never ceased to nurture me, succour me. Though I still can’t define or canvass love, I fall for apt much thought to what passion is made of, how love works. In my experience, love seems to mood and walk on three legs: heart, head, hands.
1. A peaceable Heart: The Desire of Love
Love lives in and flows from the soul as a strong acceptance that pulls one person towards another for no apparently logical reason. This is love’s sentimental leg, the biological or alar makeup of affection, the emotional side of love. It is love as a scheme force that overwhelms the lover mastery his or her longing and yearning for the boyfriend. “I feel taut to her” sums up the magnetic pull of love.
Whether we call right “infatuation” or “love at first sight”, the loving heart is love’s blindness enlightened, love’s ardor made strong.
2. A Loving Head: The the call to Love
As “an finish of the will”, love has a volitional facet. Love is a choice. Love has a choice. The lover chooses to love, and the lover feels worthwhile to epitomize the “chosen one”. The choice to love alone person must be deliberate, a purely voluntary, un-coerced choice free of every hint and trace of manipulation from anyone. aligned if a matchmaker is involved, the decision to choose the beloved ought to be that of the lover only. Anything less is beneath love.
For love to be true further real, this alternative must be narrow and exclusive. It must exclude other possible companions that might have been chosen prerogative the past, present or future. The alternative must include only one romantically beloved person. If not, the chosen person will believe cheated besides cheapened. She will feel like nothingness more than one sharing a lady of the love-pie, which has other equally devalued eaters, none of whom will get enough to satisfy their hunger or infatuation for genuine, full-strength love.
3. Loving Hands: activity of Love
Love is not for the lazy. Love is work. And love bustle with both hands. Love has a practical side: eagerness magnetism liveliness. Loving hands practice propensity as concrete activity often expressed in one of 5 fundamental forms: touching, giving, serving, forgiving, and words of affirmation. If there is a magic to love it boundness symbolize open ropes those five practices. Lovers who consistently practice them will enjoy the most romantically rewarding relationships.
Love operates at chock-full capacity when all three legs (heart, head further hands) are activated and in full motion. The leg that’s markedly prone to stumbling and wild swings is the heart of love. Love as an emotion can embody deceptively fishy. To balance and stabilize love for the long-term, the lover needs to skinny mostly on love’s head, constantly thinking about deviceful ways to remain loving, disregarding of changes in feelings, changes in circumstances, and adjustments repercussion the relationship.
In my dating with Miss Harriet, I have by chance noticed a discernible pattern, especially when feelings of yearning elude either or both of us: whilst we “choose love” (loving skipper) and “do love” (loving hands), we faster or later “feel love” (fraternal heart). When the selection and deeds are dominion place, the desires return now turn up follows winter.
We are now pushing 19 years, besides this template still works, as we work it. Happy Valentine’s Day, Honey! I ambition you and at all times will. Uhm… I think I feel something being I say that. Am I itching for a change by those comradely hands already? ~mogama~
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Once upon a time I took a course titled Philosophy Of Religion. Looking back, I think a philosophy of love may have served me better. Whereas religion has caused me much chaos and pain, love has never ceased to nurture me, succour me. Though I still can’t define or canvass love, I fall for apt much thought to what passion is made of, how love works. In my experience, love seems to mood and walk on three legs: heart, head, hands.
1. A peaceable Heart: The Desire of Love
Love lives in and flows from the soul as a strong acceptance that pulls one person towards another for no apparently logical reason. This is love’s sentimental leg, the biological or alar makeup of affection, the emotional side of love. It is love as a scheme force that overwhelms the lover mastery his or her longing and yearning for the boyfriend. “I feel taut to her” sums up the magnetic pull of love.
Whether we call right “infatuation” or “love at first sight”, the loving heart is love’s blindness enlightened, love’s ardor made strong.
2. A Loving Head: The the call to Love
As “an finish of the will”, love has a volitional facet. Love is a choice. Love has a choice. The lover chooses to love, and the lover feels worthwhile to epitomize the “chosen one”. The choice to love alone person must be deliberate, a purely voluntary, un-coerced choice free of every hint and trace of manipulation from anyone. aligned if a matchmaker is involved, the decision to choose the beloved ought to be that of the lover only. Anything less is beneath love.
For love to be true further real, this alternative must be narrow and exclusive. It must exclude other possible companions that might have been chosen prerogative the past, present or future. The alternative must include only one romantically beloved person. If not, the chosen person will believe cheated besides cheapened. She will feel like nothingness more than one sharing a lady of the love-pie, which has other equally devalued eaters, none of whom will get enough to satisfy their hunger or infatuation for genuine, full-strength love.
3. Loving Hands: activity of Love
Love is not for the lazy. Love is work. And love bustle with both hands. Love has a practical side: eagerness magnetism liveliness. Loving hands practice propensity as concrete activity often expressed in one of 5 fundamental forms: touching, giving, serving, forgiving, and words of affirmation. If there is a magic to love it boundness symbolize open ropes those five practices. Lovers who consistently practice them will enjoy the most romantically rewarding relationships.
Love operates at chock-full capacity when all three legs (heart, head further hands) are activated and in full motion. The leg that’s markedly prone to stumbling and wild swings is the heart of love. Love as an emotion can embody deceptively fishy. To balance and stabilize love for the long-term, the lover needs to skinny mostly on love’s head, constantly thinking about deviceful ways to remain loving, disregarding of changes in feelings, changes in circumstances, and adjustments repercussion the relationship.
In my dating with Miss Harriet, I have by chance noticed a discernible pattern, especially when feelings of yearning elude either or both of us: whilst we “choose love” (loving skipper) and “do love” (loving hands), we faster or later “feel love” (fraternal heart). When the selection and deeds are dominion place, the desires return now turn up follows winter.
We are now pushing 19 years, besides this template still works, as we work it. Happy Valentine’s Day, Honey! I ambition you and at all times will. Uhm… I think I feel something being I say that. Am I itching for a change by those comradely hands already? ~mogama~
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